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About Kate Gare

"Kate is an inspiring, dedicated and professional member of the Register of Lightning Process® Practitioners. With her experience she is an ideal candidate to help support others to make changes in their lives" Phil Parker, founder of the Lightning Process®

Photo of KateI was ill for seven years so I know how frustrating it is to feel like there aren’t any answers out there. After learning The Phil Parker Lightning Process®. I feel I can truly enjoy a healthy and happy life again. Now I want to help you make a positive change in your life!

I am very proud to have supporte more than 500 people; with over 75% of all Lightning Process® participants attending my courses because of a personal recommendation from a previous attendee.
Professional experience

I am an Advanced Lightning Process® practitioner, life coach, neuro linguistic programming (NLP) practitioner and clinical hypnotherapist. I am also a past tutor, coach and examiner at the Phil Parker Training Institute where new coaches, therapists and Lightning Process practitioners are trained. 

During my career I have worked for and with a number of health and disability charities including NSPCC, Cancer Research UK, National Autistic Society (NAS), as well as Vodafone, Sky and BP. I was a director of The Disability Partnership and MOVE Europe, a European-wide charity founded by HRH The Prince of Wales. This role included working across 18 government departments to develop leadership amongst disabled civil servants as well as supporting profoundly disabled children to reach their potential.

I am a member of the British Institute of Hypnotherapy (BIH), an Advanced certified member of the Lightning Process Register and registered by the UK Confederation of Hypnotherapy Organisations (UKCHO) – number 80707.

Please note: I am not a medical professional and cannot diagnose or give medical advice.  For medical advice please speak to your GP.

Personal story

As well as being a wheelchair user as a child, I became ill in 1999. I spent years (and thousands of pounds) trying what felt like anything and everything to improve my health. I had all but given up hope but then I discovered the Lightning Process® and my life turned around. You may have read my story on Phil Parker's website. This is what I wrote just two weeks after learning the Process (more than six years ago now):

I feel like I have my life back and I now have the potential to live what to others may seem an ordinary life but to me feels like an extraordinary one. In the two weeks prior to learning the Lightning Process®I went out for dinner with friends once and lay on the sofa and ached.

In the two weeks since learning and applying the Lightning Process® I have: 

  • been to Brighton, on a whim, to walk by the sea
  • been out for dinner with friends - twice
  • completed an hour and a half of yoga
  • helped my friend who is eight months pregnant rearrange her home (ie I lifted furniture whilst she directed!)
  • been to Cheltenham for the weekend
  • visited my mum
  • been out for a friend's birthday
  • had lunch with a friend
  • been power walking
  • been to the cinema
  • planned a trip to dive with seals and whale watch.

My clarity of mind is better, and I am being more productive at work. I have energy. I am happier than I have been in a long time. I am excited about the present and the potential of my life in the future."

This was more than ten years ago and I now enjoy an active 'normal' life although it still feels extraordinary to me!  This is something that I never thought possible. 

It was when friends and family started commenting that it was so wonderful to "have me back" that I started to understand the impact my illness had also had on those that cared about me.

Kate Gare BA (Hons) Dip Clin Hyp NLP Coach, Advanced Lightning Process® Practitioner, Member of the British Institute of Hypnotherapy, Advanced Member of the Lightning Process Register

Due to the nature of the training and therapies we cannot guarantee results as everyone is different, however we have received a considerable amount of positive feedback from clients.